Dress codes can point you (and your outfit) in the right direction, but understanding dress code definitions is only the beginning.
The dress code is your cheat sheet. If you’ve ignored a wedding dress code or party invite in the past, you know firsthand that wearing the wrong outfit feels like that naked in public nightmare come true. You need the right look, but first you need to understand dress code definitions.
We’ve assembled expert advice for the most common dress code types, with ideas to help you look your best for each code. Find the dress code for your event below, or check out our FAQ section for answers to general questions about dress codes.
Dress Codes FAQ
What are the different wedding dress code types?
In addition to the other eight hundred wedding-related decisions, couples often choose a wedding dress code. The wedding style, theme, venue, and time of day all help to determine the dress code. Everything is on the table, from a black tie wedding to relatively low-key cocktail attire. If the wedding is around major holidays, you might have a festive attire wedding invite coming your way.
Why do guests have to follow the dress code?
Tracking down a tuxedo for a black tie wedding can feel like a totally unnecessary hassle, but the host is doing you a solid by setting expectations. The clearer the dress code, the less likely you are to look (and feel) out of place. You can still write passive-aggressive notes on your RSVPs, but follow the dress codes.
What should I wear if there is no dress code requested on the invitation?
For a wedding, take a conservative approach to wedding cocktail attire—you’ll be in a good position whether it turns out to be a formal wedding or a casual one. For any other event, whether it be business or social, cocktail attire is a safe bet.
What’s missing from each of these no-code suggestions? The tuxedo. You should never have to decide whether a tux is expected—this is why we have dress codes in the first place.
What about other dress code definitions? (e.g. Semi-Formal, Casual)
We don’t want to leave you hanging, but terms like “semi-formal” and “casual” are commonly misused (probably because the internet can’t even agree). For example, “semi-formal” is traditionally another way of saying black tie attire, but a lot of the information out there recommends wearing a dark suit and tie (aka cocktail attire). Basically, we don’t want to make a recommendation when the invite might accidentally be sending the wrong signal.
If your invite does request “semi-formal” attire or another confusing code (dressy casual?), text the couple for clarification. That seems like a lot, but they’ll probably appreciate the consideration.
The Perfect Suit for Every Dress Code
Here’s the deal: there is no “one suit to rule them all” when it comes to dress codes. (The “Sauron Suit,” if you will.) Tuxedos are usually too much for a low-key event, and that grey suit won’t cut it for a black tie wedding. So what can you do about that tux-level dress code on the invite if you don’t own a tux?
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